Bump what they told you. THIS is what grown and sexy looks like. A note to both current and aspiring singers alike: carefully watch the subtleness to the sexy- toying with the spaghetti strap, never actually pulling the strap down; bare shoulders and a sleek collarbone are revealed encased in flawless skin, but nary a pelvic or gluteal thrust in the video. Again, THIS is how grown women do sexy.